22.1.09

Dirty talk - Do you sound stupid?

I get a lot of emails from women asking all sorts of questions. I've heard it all.

One question I get quite often, is from women who are afraid to sound stupid, so I want to talk about this.

Unlike the episode of SATC where Miranda says something to her boyfriend while in the bedroom and he gets up and leaves....that doesn't happen.

Chances are, if you're secure enough to try talking dirty to your guy, then I highly doubt that anything you say will completely turn him off. If anything, he'll probably laugh.

If you've done any research for dirty talk online, everyone says 'start slow', and it's actually decent advice. In the beginning, you should just ask general sexy questions to see what he likes: "What do you want me to do?" "Does it feel good when I do this?" "Do you like when I do this?". That way you can play it safe, then once you're comfortable with getting reactions, start adding in some playful names: "how does that feel tiger?"....etc..etc..

If you're worried about sounding stupid, don't be. If your guy is lucky enough to have YOU want to learn to be good at dirty talk, he should know not to mess it up.

Go do it and have fun. It's worth it.

Evan

14.1.09

Nicknames your man will LOVE!

Time to learn some sexy nicknames to call your man.

But before I get into it, here's my first tip...Avoid cutesy-wutsy nicknames at all cost (unless you want to make him feel like he's 10).

We're going for the stud-factor meter here, these are names that will make him feel incredibly sexy.

Here you go:


Handsome - This makes him feel and attractive and most importantly, manly. If you make him feel manly, he will treat you like his princess.

Cowboy - Cowboys are bad ass. Manly, they tame wild horses, but who can tame them? ...You! Calling him this name after sex makes him feel like he did a good job if you know what I mean ;)

Rock Star - Goes without saying that most guys (at one point) want to be a rock star. Give him the feel of it by using this nickname.

Big guy
- Even if your man is not big, this will make him feel big. Let him know you think he can protect you, and you will fuel his confidence which he'll take out on you. In a good way!

Tiger - Guys love tiger. The word tiger is synonymous with precision, and power which we love to have. Always a winner of a nickname, especially in bed.

Stud - If your boyfriend/husband/fling overheard you calling him a stud to your girlfriends, you would score some mad points. Never go wrong with this gem.

Hunk - A bit old 80's (A.C Slater style) but still works. Just don't get too carried away with it, ie: 'my hunk-a-hunk-o-burning-love'. Cheese overload.

There you have it. A few quick nicknames that will show your man you think he's sexy.

For more tips, don't forget to check out my site.

Evan Michaels

13.1.09

2009 - A year for fun!

Ok, another year has gone by. Time sure flies doesn't it?

So what has changed with you and your relationships? Whether you are in one or not, you're probably the same ol' you. You say the same things, do the same things in bed, it's not boring....but it's not wild and crazy.

What you need is to spice things up a little bit, so I dare YOU to do just that.

If you've seen any of my websites at all, you know I have a pile of resources as far as dirty talking goes, so I would encourage you to check them out, but there is more to wild and crazy then just that.

The purpose of today's blog is that I want to remind you how important sex is in relationships, and that you both are attracted to each other. Part of that attraction is knowing how to please one another, and if you are close minded in your sexual routine, it's going to be welcome to snoozeville.

Take some chances this year...find what turns you on, and what turns on your partner and see what happens!

Evan Michaels