8.12.09

Dirty Talk Examples Men LOVE

Having a great sex life is fantastic and something everyone should have!

However...it takes work.

While some people naturally know what to do and say in the bedroom (which is rare), like most things, the majority of us have to work at it. And the only way to work at it and get better is to learn.

I've done a lot of research in this industry, and have helped THOUSANDS of relationships open up their communication, and have a much more exciting private life.

So for all you women out there who want to have an exciting sex life, I want to share part of my research and offer you a juicy list of some of the dirty words do men LOVE to hear.

This list has been created from surveying 100's of men, and will score you some points if you use them in the bedroom. Try them out:

'the BIGGEST...'
'the BEST...'
'the NICEST...'
'Huge'
'I LOVE...'
'So good'
'So strong'
'Wow'
'Can't wait'
'Pllllease'
'Ohhhhh'
'Mmmmmm'
'OMG'
'Big boy'
'Stud'
'...never before'
'Incredible'
'The first time I've'

You know your guy better then anyone else, so you have to make sure that these words are followed up with something that relates to him. PLUS, the way those words are delivered is what makes it so hot.

It's all about confidence...put some emotion behind those words. Think sexy thoughts and MEAN it! It will come across so hot, I doubt he'll last 2 minutes!

Give it a try.

Evan Michaels

For more on how to talk dirty, check out some of my videos.

24.11.09

Don't Be Square

You know what's great about relationships nowadays?

Technology!

Back in the day, if your man went away on a trip, you couldn't even communicate with him for 10...20...60 days! How bad would that be?

Lucky for us being born when we were, we have all sorts of great technology that makes it easy for us to stay in touch.

Part of why people cheat and/or lose interest, is things get boring....stale. Men often lose interest when their routine gets predictable. And exactly that's what my site is for, to help YOU keep things fun to ensure long term satisfaction in your relationship.

So today's tip is, send him a naughty pic to his phone.

Chances are, your cell phone enables you to take a picture and SMS it to him.

Take a nice seductive picture of you sucking on a lollipop, blowing a kiss, or perhaps even show some skin (the last one will get you MAJOR points).

Now I know you're scared of that last one...what if he shows his friends??? If he's a good guy, he won't. But the fact you did that will be so sexy, it will literally blow his mind.

Give it a try and watch the results you get.

For more great tips, be sure to join my mailing list.


Evan Michaels

30.9.09

Boring Sex Life?

If you think you have a boring sex life, and you’re looking to make some changes...Good for you.

At dirty talk tips, we like to look on the bright side of things. So first of all, consider yourself lucky that you have ANY type of sex life.

Now, 40% out of 300 people I surveyed said they have a boring sex life. So it’s not uncommon.

The good news is that it’s really easy to have a great bedroom life and that’s what I’m hoping to help you with today.

Your sex life, is just like your diet. If you eat the same thing every day, you will get bored of that food (no matter how much you like it:). It’s all about variety.

The reason sex was so fun when you’re young is because it’s new and exciting, so the older you get, the more predicable it can become.

So what YOU need to do, is mix it up.

If you spend any time at all looking through our blog/articles, you’ll find lots of ideas about little things to spice it up and that’s definitely where I recommend you start. Don’t research then do everything all at once. Do a new sex move here, or a sexy post-it note there, I guarantee you there’s no shortages of those (the dirty talk handbook is loaded with those). But please pleas please, don’t settle for a boring sex life. Life is too short for that.

If you’re feeling especially wild and crazy, check out our 5 sex tips guaranteed to blow his mind!

Good luck,

Evan Michaels

18.8.09

Dirty talk help

Today's post is geared towards people who think they need dirty talk help.

Honestly, I know it can be frustrating if your partner loves to talk dirty, and is even good at it, when you are not.

The worst thing you can do, is get nervous and upset that you don't know what to say.

The key is to embrace it.

See it from the other persons shoes. You enjoy naughty talk, and can see your partner wants to join along but doesn't know what to say....it's cute. So play off of it. Even saying you want to say something to turn them on but don't know what...they might even tell you what they want to hear and what turns them on!

It's all about communication, so if you can't ask your partner what turns them on, then your dirty talk will never be as exciting as possible.

Good luck!

Evan Michaels

6.8.09

6 Quick Ways to Bring a Smile to His Face

It’s the easiest thing in the world to get dragged down by the daily grind… getting wrapped up with work problems and all those millions of things that need to get sorted out before heading off to bed at night. Sometimes the last thing you feel in the midst of all that is sexy.

But really, you don’t have to let that get in the way of your fun. Putting a smile on both your faces doesn’t need to involve a specially prepared evening, hours out of your day, or sexy lingerie. With the smallest gestures you can brighten your guy’s day beyond recognition… and in doing so make your own day far more fun and definitely more sexy.

So here are my top tips for turning any day around and putting a smile on your guy’s face:

1) Write a little note for your guy and slip it into a pocket, his work bag, in with his lunch, or any place he is likely to come across it during the day. It can be as simple as “Can’t wait to see you tonight, lover”, or something more explicit. Have fun with it! He’ll find the note sometime throughout the day and… instant smile.


2) Send him a quick series of text messages either recounting something you enjoyed in the bedroom recently, or something you want to do to him soon.


3) Grab your camera phone and take a naughty picture. (If you’re at work, just head to the lady’s washroom to take it.) It can be as explicit as you like, and don’t worry if he’s already seen that pose before. Seriously, he won’t care. Either text or email the picture straight to his phone for an awesome midday surprise.


4) When you get a moment, compose a sexy email story… a fantasy played out where the two of you are the main characters, or a shorter account of something you did (or want to do), etc – send it to him through the day to give him a little thrill. If you’re stuck for ideas, have a look around the internet for inspiration.


5) Pick a moment of the day when you know your guy can’t answer the phone and leave him a hot voicemail message. He’ll have a huge grin on his face when he checks his messages later on!


6) What preferences does your guy have? Does he love that you wear satin panties? Does he love the smell of your perfume? Do you have a small sex toy you both love using? See if you can think of something small enough to stash in his work bag where he’ll find it later on. This one might not be great for more conservative guys, but even a squirt of your perfume on a little note will do the trick.


Here’s another great tip for you… combine a few of the suggestion above to have even more fun throughout the day. For instance – write a note in the morning telling your guy you’re not wearing any panties today. Include the panties with the note in his work bag as proof. Then send him texts through the day reminding him about it, or take a suggestive picture (it doesn’t have to be too X rated ;) Guaranteed to make him smile!

So there you have 6 really easy, quick ways to add a little spice to his life (and yours). Try them all and pay attention to what seems to get the best response… then use it whenever you think your guy might enjoy a little something sexy to get him through the day!

25.5.09

101 Dirty Talk Examples

To help you get started spicing up your sex life, I want to give you 101 SEXY dirty talk examples that will blow the socks off of ANY man!

But before we get into it, remember, great dirty talk is different for everyone. While the below examples have been known and recommended from men across the board, feel free to change or tweak them for your special someone.

101 Dirty Talk Examples:


  1. I love your hot c*ck



  2. I want you inside me right now!



  3. I'm going to rock your world right now



  4. I feel so sexy in your arms



  5. Stand right there... I'm going to slowly undress you...



  6. You're so hot and sexy!



  7. You look so hot... I want you right now



  8. Is that a present for me wrapped up in your boxers?



  9. I'm gonna take control tonight baby... and you have to do *everything* I say!



  10. I want your c*ck in me



  11. I'm going to s*ck you till you c*m so hard!



  12. Mmm... I love the taste of you



  13. Naughty boys like you need to be punished



  14. You're so big!



  15. Have you been bad today?



  16. You have a very skilled tongue



  17. What are you going to do to me?



  18. What do you want to do to me?



  19. I want to give you so much pleasure



  20. I want to your hard d*ck in my mouth



  21. You make me so wet



  22. Lick me right here and I'll c*m (then show him slowly with your hand)



  23. You' get me off like no other man can!



  24. S*cking you off turns me on so much



  25. You have the nicest c*ck I have ever seen!



  26. I love it when you say my name while we're having sex... it turns me on so much



  27. You feel so good when you're deep inside me...



  28. I love it when you're pressed naked against me...



  29. I'd love you to f*ck me from behind



  30. We fit perfectly together baby... you feel incredible inside me



  31. You're making me squirm with pleasure



  32. I can't get enough of your sexy broad shoulders and gorgeous chest



  33. Your c*ck fits me just perfect



  34. I love it when you c*m inside me



  35. Oh that feels so good!



  36. I love looking into your eyes when we're having sex, it turns me on



  37. I love it when you wrap your muscular arms around me



  38. I love it when you f*ck me fast/slow like that



  39. Your c*ck feels huge!



  40. That's so good... you're going to make me c*m



  41. Yeah... f*ck me baby



  42. Mmm... I want you to c*m INSIDE me



  43. Where do you want to c*m?



  44. Take it slowly baby



  45. Are you gonna c*m?



  46. I want you to c*m all over me



  47. I'm your bad little girl



  48. It's going in so deep, almost too deep



  49. Does that feel good baby?



  50. Take me now baby



  51. You give me the best sex I've ever had



  52. Give it to me tiger!



  53. I want to taste you baby



  54. That was hot, let's do it again!



  55. I want to ride you right now baby



  56. Come here big boy



  57. No one has ever turned me on like you can



  58. I can't wait to do you!



  59. You have the most beautiful c*ck I have ever seen



  60. Your p*nis drives me wild!



  61. Your body is so hot



  62. I want you to be gentle



  63. Stick it in, plllllllease



  64. Rub my cl*t with your nice c*ck



  65. I'm going to f*ck you so hard and fast



  66. I love feeling your hard c*ck deep inside me... stretching my p*ssy when you thrust like that



  67. Your c*ck is stretching me out



  68. I love putting my hands all over your gorgeous shoulders and arms while I ride your hard c*ck... it



    makes me want to f*cking scream!



  69. I want to ride your hard, fat c*ck so it fills my tight p*ssy until you make me scream baby



  70. Your hard c*ck fills my p*ssy and makes me scream every time



  71. I just wanna scream with pleasure when our naked bodies are close together and you're pounding



    me with your hard c*ck



  72. I get so wet when I see your ripped abs and chest pressed against my tits



  73. Take it slowly baby... your hard fat c*ck is stretching my tight wet p*ssy



  74. I just wanna scream when I feel your hard c*ck come inside my tight p*ssy



  75. Keep f*cking me just like that baby... your c*ck feels amazing!



  76. It makes me so wet when you look at me while you're pounding my p*ssy with your hard c*ck



  77. I get so wet when you hold me close and thrust your hard c*ck inside me



  78. I love having my wet p*ssy filled with your hard c*ck when you bang me hard like that



  79. Oh yeah... I want to feel every inch of that hard throbbing c*ck inside me



  80. Keep f*cking me like that and I am going to c*m so hard



  81. Yeah... pound my p*ssy with that big c*ck of yours



  82. I want you to fill my p*ssy with your c*m baby



  83. I want you to c*m all over my chest baby



  84. Go slowly baby... I want you to ease your c*ck into my tight p*ssy



  85. Do you want to c*m on me baby?



  86. I've been a very naughty girl and you need to punish me with your c*ck



  87. You're filling me all up baby... I love your hard fat c*ck stuffed inside my p*ssy



  88. I want to make you moan and scream when I touch you all over... till you can't take it any more



  89. Fill my p*ssy with your throbbing d*ck baby



  90. You make me c*m so f*cking hard baby



  91. I can't wait to wrap my lips around your hard c*ck



  92. Why don't you come up here so I can s*ck on it then you can put it back in?



  93. That was f*cking incredible... f*ck me again!



  94. How about I go on top and ride you for a bit, big boy?



  95. Slow down there big boy, I need a break



  96. Tease me with that nice c*ck



  97. Tell me how much you love it



  98. Slap my *ss



  99. Slap my *ss harder



  100. Finish on my *ss



  101. Whew! That was a great workout :)


I hope these examples give you ideas of what men crave, and how to drive them wild.
But REMEMBER, reading examples won't teach you exactly how to talk dirty. So when you are ready to completely change your sexy life, check out my Dirty Talk Handbook. It's a ground-breaking course that teaches you exactly what men want and how to explode your sex life! It's helped thousands of women across the world and counting and is guaranteed to help yours!

Thanks for reading.


Evan Michaels

27.3.09

Dirty talk too early?

I wanted to make a quick point about how soon you should start putting the verbal moves on your partner.

The face is, there is no such thing as too early.

Most of us men have imaginations that run wild, and if you take advantage of that early on, we're going to be thinking about you ALL the time.

Again, when I say dirty talk or sexy talk, I don't just mean bedroom lines that are especially naughty, I mean playful...teasing lines that are just good fun.

The occasional guy won't know how to play the game with you in the early stages of dating, but most guys will see it as excitement, and their face will lit up if you include a little sexy talk early on in your conversations.

Good luck!

22.1.09

Dirty talk - Do you sound stupid?

I get a lot of emails from women asking all sorts of questions. I've heard it all.

One question I get quite often, is from women who are afraid to sound stupid, so I want to talk about this.

Unlike the episode of SATC where Miranda says something to her boyfriend while in the bedroom and he gets up and leaves....that doesn't happen.

Chances are, if you're secure enough to try talking dirty to your guy, then I highly doubt that anything you say will completely turn him off. If anything, he'll probably laugh.

If you've done any research for dirty talk online, everyone says 'start slow', and it's actually decent advice. In the beginning, you should just ask general sexy questions to see what he likes: "What do you want me to do?" "Does it feel good when I do this?" "Do you like when I do this?". That way you can play it safe, then once you're comfortable with getting reactions, start adding in some playful names: "how does that feel tiger?"....etc..etc..

If you're worried about sounding stupid, don't be. If your guy is lucky enough to have YOU want to learn to be good at dirty talk, he should know not to mess it up.

Go do it and have fun. It's worth it.

Evan

14.1.09

Nicknames your man will LOVE!

Time to learn some sexy nicknames to call your man.

But before I get into it, here's my first tip...Avoid cutesy-wutsy nicknames at all cost (unless you want to make him feel like he's 10).

We're going for the stud-factor meter here, these are names that will make him feel incredibly sexy.

Here you go:


Handsome - This makes him feel and attractive and most importantly, manly. If you make him feel manly, he will treat you like his princess.

Cowboy - Cowboys are bad ass. Manly, they tame wild horses, but who can tame them? ...You! Calling him this name after sex makes him feel like he did a good job if you know what I mean ;)

Rock Star - Goes without saying that most guys (at one point) want to be a rock star. Give him the feel of it by using this nickname.

Big guy
- Even if your man is not big, this will make him feel big. Let him know you think he can protect you, and you will fuel his confidence which he'll take out on you. In a good way!

Tiger - Guys love tiger. The word tiger is synonymous with precision, and power which we love to have. Always a winner of a nickname, especially in bed.

Stud - If your boyfriend/husband/fling overheard you calling him a stud to your girlfriends, you would score some mad points. Never go wrong with this gem.

Hunk - A bit old 80's (A.C Slater style) but still works. Just don't get too carried away with it, ie: 'my hunk-a-hunk-o-burning-love'. Cheese overload.

There you have it. A few quick nicknames that will show your man you think he's sexy.

For more tips, don't forget to check out my site.

Evan Michaels

13.1.09

2009 - A year for fun!

Ok, another year has gone by. Time sure flies doesn't it?

So what has changed with you and your relationships? Whether you are in one or not, you're probably the same ol' you. You say the same things, do the same things in bed, it's not boring....but it's not wild and crazy.

What you need is to spice things up a little bit, so I dare YOU to do just that.

If you've seen any of my websites at all, you know I have a pile of resources as far as dirty talking goes, so I would encourage you to check them out, but there is more to wild and crazy then just that.

The purpose of today's blog is that I want to remind you how important sex is in relationships, and that you both are attracted to each other. Part of that attraction is knowing how to please one another, and if you are close minded in your sexual routine, it's going to be welcome to snoozeville.

Take some chances this year...find what turns you on, and what turns on your partner and see what happens!

Evan Michaels