Today's post is geared towards people who think they need dirty talk help.
Honestly, I know it can be frustrating if your partner loves to talk dirty, and is even good at it, when you are not.
The worst thing you can do, is get nervous and upset that you don't know what to say.
The key is to embrace it.
See it from the other persons shoes. You enjoy naughty talk, and can see your partner wants to join along but doesn't know what to say....it's cute. So play off of it. Even saying you want to say something to turn them on but don't know what...they might even tell you what they want to hear and what turns them on!
It's all about communication, so if you can't ask your partner what turns them on, then your dirty talk will never be as exciting as possible.
Good luck!
Evan Michaels
18.8.09
6.8.09
6 Quick Ways to Bring a Smile to His Face
It’s the easiest thing in the world to get dragged down by the daily grind… getting wrapped up with work problems and all those millions of things that need to get sorted out before heading off to bed at night. Sometimes the last thing you feel in the midst of all that is sexy.
But really, you don’t have to let that get in the way of your fun. Putting a smile on both your faces doesn’t need to involve a specially prepared evening, hours out of your day, or sexy lingerie. With the smallest gestures you can brighten your guy’s day beyond recognition… and in doing so make your own day far more fun and definitely more sexy.
So here are my top tips for turning any day around and putting a smile on your guy’s face:
1) Write a little note for your guy and slip it into a pocket, his work bag, in with his lunch, or any place he is likely to come across it during the day. It can be as simple as “Can’t wait to see you tonight, lover”, or something more explicit. Have fun with it! He’ll find the note sometime throughout the day and… instant smile.
2) Send him a quick series of text messages either recounting something you enjoyed in the bedroom recently, or something you want to do to him soon.
3) Grab your camera phone and take a naughty picture. (If you’re at work, just head to the lady’s washroom to take it.) It can be as explicit as you like, and don’t worry if he’s already seen that pose before. Seriously, he won’t care. Either text or email the picture straight to his phone for an awesome midday surprise.
4) When you get a moment, compose a sexy email story… a fantasy played out where the two of you are the main characters, or a shorter account of something you did (or want to do), etc – send it to him through the day to give him a little thrill. If you’re stuck for ideas, have a look around the internet for inspiration.
5) Pick a moment of the day when you know your guy can’t answer the phone and leave him a hot voicemail message. He’ll have a huge grin on his face when he checks his messages later on!
6) What preferences does your guy have? Does he love that you wear satin panties? Does he love the smell of your perfume? Do you have a small sex toy you both love using? See if you can think of something small enough to stash in his work bag where he’ll find it later on. This one might not be great for more conservative guys, but even a squirt of your perfume on a little note will do the trick.
Here’s another great tip for you… combine a few of the suggestion above to have even more fun throughout the day. For instance – write a note in the morning telling your guy you’re not wearing any panties today. Include the panties with the note in his work bag as proof. Then send him texts through the day reminding him about it, or take a suggestive picture (it doesn’t have to be too X rated ;) Guaranteed to make him smile!
So there you have 6 really easy, quick ways to add a little spice to his life (and yours). Try them all and pay attention to what seems to get the best response… then use it whenever you think your guy might enjoy a little something sexy to get him through the day!
But really, you don’t have to let that get in the way of your fun. Putting a smile on both your faces doesn’t need to involve a specially prepared evening, hours out of your day, or sexy lingerie. With the smallest gestures you can brighten your guy’s day beyond recognition… and in doing so make your own day far more fun and definitely more sexy.
So here are my top tips for turning any day around and putting a smile on your guy’s face:
1) Write a little note for your guy and slip it into a pocket, his work bag, in with his lunch, or any place he is likely to come across it during the day. It can be as simple as “Can’t wait to see you tonight, lover”, or something more explicit. Have fun with it! He’ll find the note sometime throughout the day and… instant smile.
2) Send him a quick series of text messages either recounting something you enjoyed in the bedroom recently, or something you want to do to him soon.
3) Grab your camera phone and take a naughty picture. (If you’re at work, just head to the lady’s washroom to take it.) It can be as explicit as you like, and don’t worry if he’s already seen that pose before. Seriously, he won’t care. Either text or email the picture straight to his phone for an awesome midday surprise.
4) When you get a moment, compose a sexy email story… a fantasy played out where the two of you are the main characters, or a shorter account of something you did (or want to do), etc – send it to him through the day to give him a little thrill. If you’re stuck for ideas, have a look around the internet for inspiration.
5) Pick a moment of the day when you know your guy can’t answer the phone and leave him a hot voicemail message. He’ll have a huge grin on his face when he checks his messages later on!
6) What preferences does your guy have? Does he love that you wear satin panties? Does he love the smell of your perfume? Do you have a small sex toy you both love using? See if you can think of something small enough to stash in his work bag where he’ll find it later on. This one might not be great for more conservative guys, but even a squirt of your perfume on a little note will do the trick.
Here’s another great tip for you… combine a few of the suggestion above to have even more fun throughout the day. For instance – write a note in the morning telling your guy you’re not wearing any panties today. Include the panties with the note in his work bag as proof. Then send him texts through the day reminding him about it, or take a suggestive picture (it doesn’t have to be too X rated ;) Guaranteed to make him smile!
So there you have 6 really easy, quick ways to add a little spice to his life (and yours). Try them all and pay attention to what seems to get the best response… then use it whenever you think your guy might enjoy a little something sexy to get him through the day!
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