It's amazing how one little word can fire things up, or ice things down. Watch this short vid for some juicy dirty talk tips.
14.1.10
8.12.09
Dirty Talk Examples Men LOVE
Having a great sex life is fantastic and something everyone should have!
However...it takes work.
While some people naturally know what to do and say in the bedroom (which is rare), like most things, the majority of us have to work at it. And the only way to work at it and get better is to learn.
I've done a lot of research in this industry, and have helped THOUSANDS of relationships open up their communication, and have a much more exciting private life.
So for all you women out there who want to have an exciting sex life, I want to share part of my research and offer you a juicy list of some of the dirty words do men LOVE to hear.
This list has been created from surveying 100's of men, and will score you some points if you use them in the bedroom. Try them out:
'the BIGGEST...'
'the BEST...'
'the NICEST...'
'Huge'
'I LOVE...'
'So good'
'So strong'
'Wow'
'Can't wait'
'Pllllease'
'Ohhhhh'
'Mmmmmm'
'OMG'
'Big boy'
'Stud'
'...never before'
'Incredible'
'The first time I've'
You know your guy better then anyone else, so you have to make sure that these words are followed up with something that relates to him. PLUS, the way those words are delivered is what makes it so hot.
It's all about confidence...put some emotion behind those words. Think sexy thoughts and MEAN it! It will come across so hot, I doubt he'll last 2 minutes!
Give it a try.
Evan Michaels
For more on how to talk dirty, check out some of my videos.
However...it takes work.
While some people naturally know what to do and say in the bedroom (which is rare), like most things, the majority of us have to work at it. And the only way to work at it and get better is to learn.
I've done a lot of research in this industry, and have helped THOUSANDS of relationships open up their communication, and have a much more exciting private life.
So for all you women out there who want to have an exciting sex life, I want to share part of my research and offer you a juicy list of some of the dirty words do men LOVE to hear.
This list has been created from surveying 100's of men, and will score you some points if you use them in the bedroom. Try them out:
'the BIGGEST...'
'the BEST...'
'the NICEST...'
'Huge'
'I LOVE...'
'So good'
'So strong'
'Wow'
'Can't wait'
'Pllllease'
'Ohhhhh'
'Mmmmmm'
'OMG'
'Big boy'
'Stud'
'...never before'
'Incredible'
'The first time I've'
You know your guy better then anyone else, so you have to make sure that these words are followed up with something that relates to him. PLUS, the way those words are delivered is what makes it so hot.
It's all about confidence...put some emotion behind those words. Think sexy thoughts and MEAN it! It will come across so hot, I doubt he'll last 2 minutes!
Give it a try.
Evan Michaels
For more on how to talk dirty, check out some of my videos.
24.11.09
Don't Be Square
You know what's great about relationships nowadays?
Technology!
Back in the day, if your man went away on a trip, you couldn't even communicate with him for 10...20...60 days! How bad would that be?
Lucky for us being born when we were, we have all sorts of great technology that makes it easy for us to stay in touch.
Part of why people cheat and/or lose interest, is things get boring....stale. Men often lose interest when their routine gets predictable. And exactly that's what my site is for, to help YOU keep things fun to ensure long term satisfaction in your relationship.
So today's tip is, send him a naughty pic to his phone.
Chances are, your cell phone enables you to take a picture and SMS it to him.
Take a nice seductive picture of you sucking on a lollipop, blowing a kiss, or perhaps even show some skin (the last one will get you MAJOR points).
Now I know you're scared of that last one...what if he shows his friends??? If he's a good guy, he won't. But the fact you did that will be so sexy, it will literally blow his mind.
Give it a try and watch the results you get.
For more great tips, be sure to join my mailing list.
Evan Michaels
Technology!
Back in the day, if your man went away on a trip, you couldn't even communicate with him for 10...20...60 days! How bad would that be?
Lucky for us being born when we were, we have all sorts of great technology that makes it easy for us to stay in touch.
Part of why people cheat and/or lose interest, is things get boring....stale. Men often lose interest when their routine gets predictable. And exactly that's what my site is for, to help YOU keep things fun to ensure long term satisfaction in your relationship.
So today's tip is, send him a naughty pic to his phone.
Chances are, your cell phone enables you to take a picture and SMS it to him.
Take a nice seductive picture of you sucking on a lollipop, blowing a kiss, or perhaps even show some skin (the last one will get you MAJOR points).
Now I know you're scared of that last one...what if he shows his friends??? If he's a good guy, he won't. But the fact you did that will be so sexy, it will literally blow his mind.
Give it a try and watch the results you get.
For more great tips, be sure to join my mailing list.
Evan Michaels
30.9.09
Boring Sex Life?
If you think you have a boring sex life, and you’re looking to make some changes...Good for you.
At dirty talk tips, we like to look on the bright side of things. So first of all, consider yourself lucky that you have ANY type of sex life.
Now, 40% out of 300 people I surveyed said they have a boring sex life. So it’s not uncommon.
The good news is that it’s really easy to have a great bedroom life and that’s what I’m hoping to help you with today.
Your sex life, is just like your diet. If you eat the same thing every day, you will get bored of that food (no matter how much you like it:). It’s all about variety.
The reason sex was so fun when you’re young is because it’s new and exciting, so the older you get, the more predicable it can become.
So what YOU need to do, is mix it up.
If you spend any time at all looking through our blog/articles, you’ll find lots of ideas about little things to spice it up and that’s definitely where I recommend you start. Don’t research then do everything all at once. Do a new sex move here, or a sexy post-it note there, I guarantee you there’s no shortages of those (the dirty talk handbook is loaded with those). But please pleas please, don’t settle for a boring sex life. Life is too short for that.
If you’re feeling especially wild and crazy, check out our 5 sex tips guaranteed to blow his mind!
Good luck,
Evan Michaels
At dirty talk tips, we like to look on the bright side of things. So first of all, consider yourself lucky that you have ANY type of sex life.
Now, 40% out of 300 people I surveyed said they have a boring sex life. So it’s not uncommon.
The good news is that it’s really easy to have a great bedroom life and that’s what I’m hoping to help you with today.
Your sex life, is just like your diet. If you eat the same thing every day, you will get bored of that food (no matter how much you like it:). It’s all about variety.
The reason sex was so fun when you’re young is because it’s new and exciting, so the older you get, the more predicable it can become.
So what YOU need to do, is mix it up.
If you spend any time at all looking through our blog/articles, you’ll find lots of ideas about little things to spice it up and that’s definitely where I recommend you start. Don’t research then do everything all at once. Do a new sex move here, or a sexy post-it note there, I guarantee you there’s no shortages of those (the dirty talk handbook is loaded with those). But please pleas please, don’t settle for a boring sex life. Life is too short for that.
If you’re feeling especially wild and crazy, check out our 5 sex tips guaranteed to blow his mind!
Good luck,
Evan Michaels
18.8.09
Dirty talk help
Today's post is geared towards people who think they need dirty talk help.
Honestly, I know it can be frustrating if your partner loves to talk dirty, and is even good at it, when you are not.
The worst thing you can do, is get nervous and upset that you don't know what to say.
The key is to embrace it.
See it from the other persons shoes. You enjoy naughty talk, and can see your partner wants to join along but doesn't know what to say....it's cute. So play off of it. Even saying you want to say something to turn them on but don't know what...they might even tell you what they want to hear and what turns them on!
It's all about communication, so if you can't ask your partner what turns them on, then your dirty talk will never be as exciting as possible.
Good luck!
Evan Michaels
Honestly, I know it can be frustrating if your partner loves to talk dirty, and is even good at it, when you are not.
The worst thing you can do, is get nervous and upset that you don't know what to say.
The key is to embrace it.
See it from the other persons shoes. You enjoy naughty talk, and can see your partner wants to join along but doesn't know what to say....it's cute. So play off of it. Even saying you want to say something to turn them on but don't know what...they might even tell you what they want to hear and what turns them on!
It's all about communication, so if you can't ask your partner what turns them on, then your dirty talk will never be as exciting as possible.
Good luck!
Evan Michaels
6.8.09
6 Quick Ways to Bring a Smile to His Face
It’s the easiest thing in the world to get dragged down by the daily grind… getting wrapped up with work problems and all those millions of things that need to get sorted out before heading off to bed at night. Sometimes the last thing you feel in the midst of all that is sexy.
But really, you don’t have to let that get in the way of your fun. Putting a smile on both your faces doesn’t need to involve a specially prepared evening, hours out of your day, or sexy lingerie. With the smallest gestures you can brighten your guy’s day beyond recognition… and in doing so make your own day far more fun and definitely more sexy.
So here are my top tips for turning any day around and putting a smile on your guy’s face:
1) Write a little note for your guy and slip it into a pocket, his work bag, in with his lunch, or any place he is likely to come across it during the day. It can be as simple as “Can’t wait to see you tonight, lover”, or something more explicit. Have fun with it! He’ll find the note sometime throughout the day and… instant smile.
2) Send him a quick series of text messages either recounting something you enjoyed in the bedroom recently, or something you want to do to him soon.
3) Grab your camera phone and take a naughty picture. (If you’re at work, just head to the lady’s washroom to take it.) It can be as explicit as you like, and don’t worry if he’s already seen that pose before. Seriously, he won’t care. Either text or email the picture straight to his phone for an awesome midday surprise.
4) When you get a moment, compose a sexy email story… a fantasy played out where the two of you are the main characters, or a shorter account of something you did (or want to do), etc – send it to him through the day to give him a little thrill. If you’re stuck for ideas, have a look around the internet for inspiration.
5) Pick a moment of the day when you know your guy can’t answer the phone and leave him a hot voicemail message. He’ll have a huge grin on his face when he checks his messages later on!
6) What preferences does your guy have? Does he love that you wear satin panties? Does he love the smell of your perfume? Do you have a small sex toy you both love using? See if you can think of something small enough to stash in his work bag where he’ll find it later on. This one might not be great for more conservative guys, but even a squirt of your perfume on a little note will do the trick.
Here’s another great tip for you… combine a few of the suggestion above to have even more fun throughout the day. For instance – write a note in the morning telling your guy you’re not wearing any panties today. Include the panties with the note in his work bag as proof. Then send him texts through the day reminding him about it, or take a suggestive picture (it doesn’t have to be too X rated ;) Guaranteed to make him smile!
So there you have 6 really easy, quick ways to add a little spice to his life (and yours). Try them all and pay attention to what seems to get the best response… then use it whenever you think your guy might enjoy a little something sexy to get him through the day!
But really, you don’t have to let that get in the way of your fun. Putting a smile on both your faces doesn’t need to involve a specially prepared evening, hours out of your day, or sexy lingerie. With the smallest gestures you can brighten your guy’s day beyond recognition… and in doing so make your own day far more fun and definitely more sexy.
So here are my top tips for turning any day around and putting a smile on your guy’s face:
1) Write a little note for your guy and slip it into a pocket, his work bag, in with his lunch, or any place he is likely to come across it during the day. It can be as simple as “Can’t wait to see you tonight, lover”, or something more explicit. Have fun with it! He’ll find the note sometime throughout the day and… instant smile.
2) Send him a quick series of text messages either recounting something you enjoyed in the bedroom recently, or something you want to do to him soon.
3) Grab your camera phone and take a naughty picture. (If you’re at work, just head to the lady’s washroom to take it.) It can be as explicit as you like, and don’t worry if he’s already seen that pose before. Seriously, he won’t care. Either text or email the picture straight to his phone for an awesome midday surprise.
4) When you get a moment, compose a sexy email story… a fantasy played out where the two of you are the main characters, or a shorter account of something you did (or want to do), etc – send it to him through the day to give him a little thrill. If you’re stuck for ideas, have a look around the internet for inspiration.
5) Pick a moment of the day when you know your guy can’t answer the phone and leave him a hot voicemail message. He’ll have a huge grin on his face when he checks his messages later on!
6) What preferences does your guy have? Does he love that you wear satin panties? Does he love the smell of your perfume? Do you have a small sex toy you both love using? See if you can think of something small enough to stash in his work bag where he’ll find it later on. This one might not be great for more conservative guys, but even a squirt of your perfume on a little note will do the trick.
Here’s another great tip for you… combine a few of the suggestion above to have even more fun throughout the day. For instance – write a note in the morning telling your guy you’re not wearing any panties today. Include the panties with the note in his work bag as proof. Then send him texts through the day reminding him about it, or take a suggestive picture (it doesn’t have to be too X rated ;) Guaranteed to make him smile!
So there you have 6 really easy, quick ways to add a little spice to his life (and yours). Try them all and pay attention to what seems to get the best response… then use it whenever you think your guy might enjoy a little something sexy to get him through the day!
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