15.5.10

Instant Dirty Talk Buzzkills

In case you missed my latest post at Dirty Talk Tips, go check it out!

It's called Words That Must NEVER Be Used In The Bedroom, and not only will it make you laugh, but will give you some great feedback on how to avoid potentially awkward and embarrassing situations.

Let's face it, dirty talk is about having lots of fun with someone... that's the whole point!

But like any skill, it takes time to get good at. Which is why I have spent the last two years creating an entire website around it.

Check out lots of free tips on my blog over at dirty talk tips, and when you want to crank up your relationship to the NEXT level. Get a copy of the dirty talk handbook.

That's all for today. Stay tuned because I have a SUPER awesome thing I'm going to reveal before the end of the weekend. You will love it!


Stay sexy.

Evan Michaels

10.2.10

Become MORE Attractive To Men

If you want to become more interesting, more fun, and generally more attractive to men, then I have some good news for you.  Being attractive has NOTHING to do with beauty!

That seems weird, right?

The thing is, people who are physically beautiful often rely on their looks to stand out from everyone else. And while it may help get attention early on, they often neglect to develop any personality or communication skills, and are left with little power in the end. The bloom of youth fades and there is ALWAYS someone younger and more beautiful to come along.

So today I want to share 3 quick things you can apply immediately to become more irresistible to men:

 

1. Like yourself

Confidence is sexy. That’s no surprise. And for most people, it’s hard to have confidence all the time.

It’s the negative tape in your mind that focuses on bad thoughts  like 'what if I say the wrong thing, what if I have bad breath, what if I sneeze on him' that needs to stop! It needs to be replaced by positive thinking... focusing on what you're good at, and most importantly, what YOU want!

Confidence takes time, but boy will shine through.

Nobody wants to be around a miserable person.

 

2. Practice conversation

If you don't have the man of your dreams, there’s a good chance it's because you're scared. Scared of failure (like how most guys feel).

Practice talking with people, with men, at the grocery story, in the elevator, at your gym. This will help you hone your people skills and communication skills so you can be ready for your opportunity with Mr. Right.

If you don't practice, you'll get nervous. And when you're nervous and try and blurt things out, you embarrass yourself. And when you embarrass yourself, you shatter your confidence and don’t look very attractive.

Newscasters didn't start out that good.

 

3. Be a little mysterious

Isn't seeing a magic trick awesome?!

You're wondering how the heck they did it, how YOU can do it, and there's something very appealing about it. But then, when you learn how the trick was done, it's a TOTAL let down.

Seeing behind the curtain isn't always a good thing. So when you're with men, especially in the beginning, let them use their imagination. Tell the truth some of the time, but leave him with his thoughts often, or say something ambiguous that will allow his imagination to run wild!

Sometimes less is more.

So there you have it, 3 quick things you can work on to become more attractive to men. Start practicing and have the relationships you want.

Evan Michaels

http://www.DirtyTalkTips.com

14.1.10

Dirty Talk Nicknames

It's amazing how one little word can fire things up, or ice things down. Watch this short vid for some juicy dirty talk tips.

8.12.09

Dirty Talk Examples Men LOVE

Having a great sex life is fantastic and something everyone should have!

However...it takes work.

While some people naturally know what to do and say in the bedroom (which is rare), like most things, the majority of us have to work at it. And the only way to work at it and get better is to learn.

I've done a lot of research in this industry, and have helped THOUSANDS of relationships open up their communication, and have a much more exciting private life.

So for all you women out there who want to have an exciting sex life, I want to share part of my research and offer you a juicy list of some of the dirty words do men LOVE to hear.

This list has been created from surveying 100's of men, and will score you some points if you use them in the bedroom. Try them out:

'the BIGGEST...'
'the BEST...'
'the NICEST...'
'Huge'
'I LOVE...'
'So good'
'So strong'
'Wow'
'Can't wait'
'Pllllease'
'Ohhhhh'
'Mmmmmm'
'OMG'
'Big boy'
'Stud'
'...never before'
'Incredible'
'The first time I've'

You know your guy better then anyone else, so you have to make sure that these words are followed up with something that relates to him. PLUS, the way those words are delivered is what makes it so hot.

It's all about confidence...put some emotion behind those words. Think sexy thoughts and MEAN it! It will come across so hot, I doubt he'll last 2 minutes!

Give it a try.

Evan Michaels

For more on how to talk dirty, check out some of my videos.

24.11.09

Don't Be Square

You know what's great about relationships nowadays?

Technology!

Back in the day, if your man went away on a trip, you couldn't even communicate with him for 10...20...60 days! How bad would that be?

Lucky for us being born when we were, we have all sorts of great technology that makes it easy for us to stay in touch.

Part of why people cheat and/or lose interest, is things get boring....stale. Men often lose interest when their routine gets predictable. And exactly that's what my site is for, to help YOU keep things fun to ensure long term satisfaction in your relationship.

So today's tip is, send him a naughty pic to his phone.

Chances are, your cell phone enables you to take a picture and SMS it to him.

Take a nice seductive picture of you sucking on a lollipop, blowing a kiss, or perhaps even show some skin (the last one will get you MAJOR points).

Now I know you're scared of that last one...what if he shows his friends??? If he's a good guy, he won't. But the fact you did that will be so sexy, it will literally blow his mind.

Give it a try and watch the results you get.

For more great tips, be sure to join my mailing list.


Evan Michaels

30.9.09

Boring Sex Life?

If you think you have a boring sex life, and you’re looking to make some changes...Good for you.

At dirty talk tips, we like to look on the bright side of things. So first of all, consider yourself lucky that you have ANY type of sex life.

Now, 40% out of 300 people I surveyed said they have a boring sex life. So it’s not uncommon.

The good news is that it’s really easy to have a great bedroom life and that’s what I’m hoping to help you with today.

Your sex life, is just like your diet. If you eat the same thing every day, you will get bored of that food (no matter how much you like it:). It’s all about variety.

The reason sex was so fun when you’re young is because it’s new and exciting, so the older you get, the more predicable it can become.

So what YOU need to do, is mix it up.

If you spend any time at all looking through our blog/articles, you’ll find lots of ideas about little things to spice it up and that’s definitely where I recommend you start. Don’t research then do everything all at once. Do a new sex move here, or a sexy post-it note there, I guarantee you there’s no shortages of those (the dirty talk handbook is loaded with those). But please pleas please, don’t settle for a boring sex life. Life is too short for that.

If you’re feeling especially wild and crazy, check out our 5 sex tips guaranteed to blow his mind!

Good luck,

Evan Michaels