If you want to become more interesting, more fun, and generally more attractive to men, then I have some good news for you. Being attractive has NOTHING to do with beauty!
That seems weird, right?
The thing is, people who are physically beautiful often rely on their looks to stand out from everyone else. And while it may help get attention early on, they often neglect to develop any personality or communication skills, and are left with little power in the end. The bloom of youth fades and there is ALWAYS someone younger and more beautiful to come along.
So today I want to share 3 quick things you can apply immediately to become more irresistible to men:
1. Like yourself
Confidence is sexy. That’s no surprise. And for most people, it’s hard to have confidence all the time.
It’s the negative tape in your mind that focuses on bad thoughts like 'what if I say the wrong thing, what if I have bad breath, what if I sneeze on him' that needs to stop! It needs to be replaced by positive thinking... focusing on what you're good at, and most importantly, what YOU want!
Confidence takes time, but boy will shine through.
Nobody wants to be around a miserable person.
2. Practice conversation
If you don't have the man of your dreams, there’s a good chance it's because you're scared. Scared of failure (like how most guys feel).
Practice talking with people, with men, at the grocery story, in the elevator, at your gym. This will help you hone your people skills and communication skills so you can be ready for your opportunity with Mr. Right.
If you don't practice, you'll get nervous. And when you're nervous and try and blurt things out, you embarrass yourself. And when you embarrass yourself, you shatter your confidence and don’t look very attractive.
Newscasters didn't start out that good.
3. Be a little mysterious
Isn't seeing a magic trick awesome?!
You're wondering how the heck they did it, how YOU can do it, and there's something very appealing about it. But then, when you learn how the trick was done, it's a TOTAL let down.
Seeing behind the curtain isn't always a good thing. So when you're with men, especially in the beginning, let them use their imagination. Tell the truth some of the time, but leave him with his thoughts often, or say something ambiguous that will allow his imagination to run wild!
Sometimes less is more.
So there you have it, 3 quick things you can work on to become more attractive to men. Start practicing and have the relationships you want.
Evan Michaels
http://www.DirtyTalkTips.com
